The thing about pain, it demands to be felt


"I modeled for a little while and I was told so much, you know, ‘we need to change those, we need to fix those’. It took me awhile to figure that out and then I’ve learned to embrace them. And I glad that I did because they might not have grown back had I changed them."

"I modeled for a little while and I was told so much, you know, ‘we need to change those, we need to fix those’. It took me awhile to figure that out and then I’ve learned to embrace them. And I glad that I did because they might not have grown back had I changed them."

“Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.

And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.

My death will not be penciled on someone’s calendar.

Anonymous asked:

can you make one or two icons of blue sargent? i know she doesnt have an actress or anything but i just think your edits are lovely

sure, I’d love to! I’ll use the same model I used for my graphic, unless you have another preference :)


"It was exciting and just a major, major compliment…I was happy for all the girls who would see me on [it] and feel a little more seen." - Lupita Nyong’o on being named People Magazine’s Most Beautiful

"It was exciting and just a major, major compliment…I was happy for all the girls who would see me on [it] and feel a little more seen." - Lupita Nyong’o on being named People Magazine’s Most Beautiful

same here definitely - there are like no trio fanfics and im writing a long one but the plot is getting icky bc polygamy in victorian era is like?? like even one man and two women would be slightly easier but one girl two boys woah woah woah conflict

ooooh i’m excited to read that!! but yeah the trio first and foremost always . unfortunately that’s not what most people focus on though :/

IMAGINE YOURSELF AS TESSA THEN YOU GET ALL THE BOYS

if only we could all be tessa

fate has a funny way of working itself out… in the meanwhile enjoy godfrey gao being pantless 31.media.tumblr.com/c1b97559e0a6fae1844abcdd0191926a/tumblr_inline_n4ihkcrltW1rngocw.gif

HOW IS GODFREY PANTLESS GOING TO HELP THINGS????
MORE BOYS I CAN’T HAVE

from now on you should keep an engagement ring in your pocket all the time

OH MY GOD YOU GUYS ARE KILLING ME